How to share chores fairly as a family
Most arguments about chores are not about the work, they are about who was supposed to do it. Writing the jobs down in one place everyone can see, with a name against each, takes most of that away. Nobody has to remember the rota, and nobody has to be the one who reminds everyone else.
Start with the jobs that come round every week, like bins, bathroom and hoovering, and set them to repeat. When someone ticks one off, next week’s appears on its own with the new date. Then add the one-off jobs as they come up, with a date if they need one and a flag if they are important.
Review it together now and then. If one person’s name is on everything, the list makes that easy to see and easy to change. Older children can have their own account and tick off their own jobs; younger ones can have theirs assigned to a parent.




